Carl Patrick Hughes

Our Thoughts and Remembrances

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On February 8, 2003 a memorial plaque from the Lancer Association was presented to the family of Pat Hughes. The Honors were delivered by Terry Garlock of the VHPA Georgia Chapter. The following is the text of his presentation:

Vietnam Helicopter Pilot’s Association Georgia Chapter

Memorial of Carl Patrick Hughes

Presented by Terry L. Garlock

February 8, 2003, Savannah, GA meeting

Today we honor the memory of Carl Patrick Hughes, a US Army Warrant Officer Helicopter pilot who died in
the service of his country on September 3, 1969 at 22 years old. He flew with the Lancers, 158th Assault
Helicopter Battalion (AHB), 101st Airborne - Airmobile, from Camp Evans in I Corps, South Vietnam.

Reggie Kenner remembers Pat as short and funny, but Reggie Kenner was 6’ 5”, so I’m not sure his version
of short can be trusted. More importantly, Reggie remembers Pat as a confident and capable pilot, and
Reggie said he always felt a little better in dawn’s early light when he discovered his assigned co-pilot for the
day was Pat Hughes.

And Reggie says Pat was quick. One day they went down in the mountains near Eagle’s Nest. Reggie says
by the time the dust settled and most parts stopped moving, someone scrambled to open Pat’s door to check
on him, but he was already sitting on the ground smoking a cigarette.

Steve Crimm flew with the Lancers, too, but Steve didn’t know Pat because their timeframe didn’t overlap. I
didn’t know Pat, either. But he was one of us, so we all know some things about him, don’t we?

For example, we know Pat Hughes was tough and smart and tenacious, because if he was not ALL of those
things he would not have made it through flight school. The washout rate was 65% when I was there. We
also know he served his country at a time when it was unpopular to wear a uniform.

There are other things we know about Pat Hughes, because when our country sent us to war as young men,
we learned some things you cannot learn any other place.

Those who found a way not to serve might have wondered “What must it be like in battle, would I be
frightened or would I have courage?” But those of us who did serve soon learned that courage is not the
absence of fear, courage is getting the job done while you’re so scared your hands shake.

We learned that when the shooting starts we’re not fighting for the flag, we’re fighting for one another.

We learned what it is to dedicate yourself to a cause greater than your own self-interest, for no matter what
we each thought of the war, as we strapped in, cranked up and prepared to fly each day, we were motivated
by serving our brothers on the ground. They needed us to take them to battle and take them out, to bring
them ammo, food and water and an occasional beer. They needed our gun cover and rockets when the
enemy was strong. They needed to know we would pick up the wounded as fast as we could even under fire,
and that we would take our dead brothers, too so they could go home. Our brothers needed us, and however
bad it was the day before, we always had to go.

We learned firsthand what Admiral Chester Nimitz meant in 1945 when he said “uncommon valor, common
virtue” as he marveled at the brutal punishment absorbed by US Marines fighting for control on Iwo Jima.

We all remember the famous photograph of our men raising the flag on Iwo Jima. James Bradley’s father
was one of those men. Bradley wrote the book titled "Flags of Our Fathers." As he interviewed the “heroes”
of Iwo Jima and searched for the essence of Adm. Nimitz’s “uncommon valor”, he was frustrated as they each
told him the same thing. “I didn’t do anything special”, they each said, “I just did my job like the other guys.”
Bradley finally figured out the meaning of Adm. Nimitz’s observation, and that the real answer was the
“common virtue” of ordinary men and women doing extraordinary things. These Marines suffered together,
they came to love one another, and they fought desperately to keep one another alive.

And when some of them were singled out as heroes, they didn’t want to stand apart from all the others, they
took enormous pride in being one of the guys they grew to love and admire.

That’s how it was for them, and so it was for us, too.

Admiral Nimitz’s “common virtue” was there aboard my father’s ship, the Fanshaw Bay, as they furiously
fought the Japanese Fleet, like David fighting Goliath, to protect our invasion force when McArthur’s Army
returned to the Philippines. Admiral Nimitz’s “common virtue” was there in my unit in Vietnam, when two
fellow pilots risked their life without a moment’s thought to rescue me one day, as just one example. And I
know Admiral Nimitz’s “common virtue” was there with each one of you, and with Pat Hughes.

Even though I don’t know some of you, I am proud to be one of you, because I know some things about you
our mothers and fathers taught us to admire. And we know those same things about Pat Hughes, don’t we?

Those who have never been to war sometimes wonder why veterans like to gather, like we’re gathered here
today. Some say veterans gather because nobody else can understand what war is like. But I think its more
than that. I think we seek one another’s company because we see in each other what is best about
ourselves. I think we are drawn by the “common virtue” that binds us all together as brothers and sisters, and
I think we are drawn by the often unspoken memory of all the others like Pat Hughes who paid the ultimate
price for their brothers and their country.

And now, as we present this plaque to the family of Pat Hughes, please stand with me.

B Co (Lancers)
158th Assault Helicopter Battalion (AHB)
101st Airborne-Airmobile Division
Vietnam 1969 - 1972

In Memorial
Carl "Pat" Hughes
Lancer
Aviator
Republic of Vietnam
Camp Evans - I Corps
1969

West from the South China Sea through the Ashau Valley to Laos and beyond
From DaNang Harbor, North to Quang Tri and the DMZ
We depended on him - And he was always there
We most solemnly and sincerely, promise and swear - his uncommon valor
Will be treasured and honored in our memories forever
Now in the High Untrespassed Sanctity of Space
We know he has put out his hand and touched the face - Of God

A few pictures from the presentation:


Members of Pat's family being presented with the Memorial Plaque		Lancer, Ben Peeples, remembering Pat to his family	VHPA members and guests stand as the presentation is made. Lancers, Bill Griffith, Steve Crimm and Ben Peeples are present.

Some remembrances:

From Al Herold:

I remember Pat Hughes as being a nice guy - young and innocent. I believe Tim DeLong arrived about the same time as Pat. I remember seeing the two of them enjoying dancing with the nurses from the new field hospital. We actually got several girls to party and dance in our O'Club.(on only one occasion as I recall).

From Ben Peeples:

I remember Pat well. Pat was called "Stump" and was a very good natured and competent pilot. I was on the accident board that investigated the crash and about a year or so ago, I had a telephone conversation with his brother.

From Pat's sister, Theresa:

As far as memories, I can tell you that Pat and I were best friends most of the time and worst enemies occasionally. I can tell you that from the time I started dating until Pat left for Clemson, I never had a date that he did not approve of. Someone would call, ask me out and I would ask permission. My father would say I'll check this boy out with Pat and will let you know. Pat and I were a year and 17 days apart, I still miss him. He never got to have children of his own, he never saw my children. I remember when he joined the Army, all he wanted to do was serve his country and fly a helicopter.

There are so many memories, I caught him smoking in the tool shed and he hit me in the head with a crowbar, I had stitches and never told our parents how it happened. Him and his friend ate the piece of birthday cake I brought him home, evidently I was not ready for him to enjoy it, so I shot him with his bebe gun, I got a spanking. We grew up in a happy home, with lots of love and family around, we could fight with each other but no one else had better mess with us.

My brother went to Viet Nam serve his country, he did not come home. He left behind his wife, mother, father, two sisters, a brother and a large family who loved him. We miss him and are very proud of him.

Thank you for doing this and for giving us the opportunity to contribute to the memory page. It is important that we remember all those who serve.

Pictures from Vietnam. sent to Pat's brother Jon:

Pat in the Lancer AO

Photos by Dan Berry

Memorial service and Missing Man flyover

Photos by Dan Martin

And Jon's personal letter:

May 31, 2003

Flight,

Thank you for remembering my brother Pat Hughes in such a special way with the Lancer Memorial Page and June ’03 Memory Month. It has been a little over two years since I stumbled onto the Lancer site. Until then, I did not know much about Pat’s service in Vietnam, or the circumstances around his death. I was a few days shy of 9 years old when someone from the Army came to our house to tell us Pat was missing, and later my parents telling me he had died. Words can not describe Pat’s loss, so I will not try. I remember those terrible day’s as if they were last week. I remember a few good times spent with Pat like going hunting once, sitting on his lap while ridding in his friend’s VW, watching him play the guitar, and going to see the movie “Green Berets” just before he left for Vietnam. Pat did some of his helicopter training here in Savannah at Hunter Army Airfield, and I remember going to his graduation. I remember his wife Nancy, but have not seen her since the mid 70’s.

Pat was a 1964 graduate of Jenkins High School here in Savannah. He attended Clemson University, and was a member of the university’s rifle team. I myself ended up at Clemson. Pat was a good friend to many and my big brother. I know of three young men named Patrick in his memory, including my oldest son.

I have several of Pat’s letters sent from Vietnam, and most are from August 1969 and within 3 weeks of his death. His August 15, 1969 letter was sent to only my father, a WW2 paratrooper with four combat jumps. Pat must have found out that Dad was worrying about him, and sent a long letter to let him know he was OK and to stop worrying. His August 30, 1969 letter was full of questions about the family, and told us a little about his missions. “The troops in the A Shau Valley are being pulled back for the coming of the monsoons. It’s hard to resupply them when the clouds are so low you can’t see them…. We don’t get shot at but some of the places we have to go aren’t very good. No sweat if you’re a good pilot. Like our company motto says “We can handle it.” We have some outstanding pilots and I’m learning a lot from them. No sweat. I’ll be home in nine months.”

I know Pat’s service in Vietnam was what he wanted to do. I miss him dearly to this day. If anyone visits Savannah, please visit the Vietnam Memorial in honor of the 106 citizens who made the ultimate sacrifice.

I have included a few pictures sent to me from Dan Martin and Dan Berry (thanks for sending them to me), and the few I had. I met Steve Crimm and Ben Peeples at the VHPA - Ga. Chapter meeting here in Savannah last February. A very nice plaque was presented to my family in memorial to Pat. Thanks to Steve for arranging to present the plaque to my family, and to Ben for sharing some memories about Pat.

Thanks again for remembering my big brother Pat.

Jon Hughes